Don’t Let People Put Thoughts In Your Head

Your opinions of yourself are what matter most

Destiny S. Harris
2 min readFeb 15, 2022
Photo Credit // Pexels // SOHAM BANERJEE

What thoughts have been rummaging through your head the last two months of this year? Are they positive or negative thoughts? Are they your thoughts or the thoughts of others?

Without realizing it, others’ truths about us can evolve into personal truths we believe about ourselves. We forget that our truths alone are what should matter most.

Someone recently came to me wondering what others were thinking about him. We do this a lot, don’t we? We wonder what people are thinking about us. And if we’re not conscientious, we start to remember the negative words others have said about us and allow them to infiltrate and influence our self-value, self-esteem, well-being, and opinion of ourselves.

If we’re not careful, it’s easy for others to put their ideas and intentions into our minds, to cast their spells on us.

You aren’t very creative. Your heart isn’t open. You’re really not healthy. You need me to succeed. You don’t deserve success. In fact, you don’t deserve…

It's easy to take in…

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